My wife and I are trying to have a kid... and it's damn hard. Who would have thought after the fear propaganda I had to endure in high school? I still remember the lectures fresh in my mind at my first sex ed class - "If you so much as look at a girl the wrong way, you can get her pregnant." The first time I had sex I actually wore two condoms for double the protection. Of course, in an attempt to impress my steed, I stayed the course longer than I should have and both condoms slipped off. Luckily she wasn't pregnant but I went through a couple weeks of fear. Now I'm looking at the opposite effect. My wife is telling me all this stuff about how we have to do it on certain days and have to do it multiple times and it could take years and then if it still doesn't happen we'll need to see a specialist.

I don't know what's scarier, thinking you got a girl pregnant or fearing that you can't.